When we detach from our Twin Flame, we are not choosing to separate from them; instead, we are releasing control of the situation and journey. When we surrender ourselves into a space of peace and unconditional love, this will enable us to attract them to you again, as the attachment is a form of resistance.
Let's look at the stages we need to accomplish for this to occur:
The Stages
Surrender — When we choose to surrender, our intention becomes powerful. By choosing to surrender, we are willing to let go of any attachment, this stage allows us to communicate to the Universe that we have decided to release the illusion of control.
Work on healing the attachment — When there is an attachment to a person or situation, no matter the circumstances, we tend to feel we are receiving something from that relationship or situation that we think is missing from ourselves. If we can do the inner work, find out what it is and choose to do the work required to heal that attachment, we can heal this attachment. This method of inner work I recommend is also called the mirror exercise.
Release the old energy and/or old things — Once we have done the inner healing work, (release the attachment we struggle with). We can fully release and purge this old energy from our consciousness. We can also allow that inner healing work to reflect in our physical environment through purging and ridding the old things that no longer serve our purpose in life.
Don't begin new attachments — If you've done the inner work to heal your attachment, to let go, don't just create a new attachment to something or someone else to shift your obsession or focus from one thing to another, to keep you stuck.
Focus on yourself and your Life Purpose — Once you've healed your attachment, you will close up any energy leak you may have had and notice your energy returning to you. This means you will have more energy to invest in yourself and your life's purpose, and as we invest in ourselves and our purpose, we are magnetising and attracting our Twin Flame!
Do something that feels good to you and adds to your joy — As an extension of the last point, doing things that truly add joy to our life doesn't mean running away from life's challenges, but something that gives to you will also attract your Twin Flame to you. You are meant to share your happiness and joy with them!
Attach yourself to the Divine/Source — Attach yourself to the Divine/Source. This means you are attached to the Source of Life and Love; the only truly appropriate dependent relationship we need to rely on in our life is the Divine/Source. It means placing the Divine/ Source in our life and making it a priority (number one) and letting anything else just fall away or fall into place.
DISCLAIMER: This post does not explain how to cut the cord, block or push your Twin Flame away or even the connection. That is not what it means to detach from your Twin Flame.
